How bad do things need to get?
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How bad do things need to get before you ask for help?
How long are you prepared to stick it out in a job that no longer fulfils you or in a company culture that does not align with your values?
How many weeks, months, or even years need to pass before you acknowledge that things aren’t working for you anymore?
Some days are ok, and some days flow but others are miserable and unbearable.
I know how it feels.
I was trapped
When I felt trapped in the hamster wheel, I just peddled harder.
I was tested
When I said that I needed a career break, my nerve and ego were tested. I was headhunted and I took the bait. I knew I was stalling but I couldn’t help myself.
I quit
Three years later I quit. Trying to juggle a high-pressured job, long hours, keep up the hard peddling, menopause, anxiety and worrying about my mother’s health was too much. I had a pot of money for a rainy day and it was raining.
I hired a coach
Quitting was both terrifying and exciting. My gut said yes, but my ego said absolutely no way!
I hired a coach to help me navigate the transition and fear of the unknown.
I worried
About walking away from my career, status, my identity and everything I’d built and created.
I healed
Was it a midlife career crisis, burnout or both? I stepped away from my career, went on holiday and retreated, did loads of yoga classes and took afternoon naps.
I created
You can’t be creative when you are frazzled and stressed out. After six months of rest, I was ready to create.
I made peace
Knowing that the experience I’ve gained is mine and I take it with me wherever I go.
I coach
If you are worried about your career or need help navigating career changes or making a fresh start, get in touch to discover how I can help you.
ABOUT ME
I’m Tracy, Career Consultant, and former Executive Headhunter, I help senior-level executives and leaders land great jobs and be successful at work through 1:1 coaching. I work with clients around the world from my London-based Zoom office.
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